Saturday, May 24
There’s nothing you can do
| Having a girlfriend who is always frustrating you every time she is in a bad mood? No matter what you do, and no matter what you say to cheer her up, you are always wrong in her eyes. Then, being confused, you ask yourself,”what does she want, actually?” Frustrating, isn’t it? The thing is, it’s simply impossible to change a woman’s mood in an instant. Once she is upset with you, there’s nothing you can do to cheer her up or to make amends for your wrongdoings. Yes of course you can try to make your deepest apology to her by saying sorry or by letting yourself become like a stupid donkey which has to listen to all her angry words or her whine—which she enjoys very much but doesn’t change her mood, though. But don’t be surprised if she doesn’t feel any better. So, forget your high expectation to make her feel better every time she is down. The only thing that can kill her bad mood is the time. Leave it to time. Time will heal her bad mood. Sooner or later, she will subside and become your lovely angel again. So, if a woman is in a bad mood, there’s nothing her man can do but wait until she gets back to normal again. If you still love her, just swallow her whine and anger. |
posted by Splinters of Thoughts at 5:40 AM
